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Handling a neighbour's complaint about noise, dust or damage

By Review.LivePublished 3 min readHow we write

At 7:20 a woman from one of the houses behind the site is at the gate. Yesterday the roller on the parking lot shook her dishes, and this morning there is a crack above her kitchen door. She wants to know who is paying, and she has the city's complaint line ready.

A yellow mesh barrier encloses the entrance and unfinished lower level of a house under construction.
Photo: Troy Mortier on Unsplash

Listen, go and look together, check your records, fix what is clearly yours the same day, and report any damage to your company without admitting or denying fault. A neighbour has no contract with you, so a client's routes do not apply: she can complain to the city, claim for damage or call her councillor. A same-day response gives her a named contact and a record of what will happen next.

  1. Listen to the end before you explain, away from the machines.
  2. Look together, with her permission, and photograph it with a tape in the frame while she watches; note her words.
  3. Check your records that morning: the pre-construction survey, the daily report and any vibration readings.
  4. Fix what is clearly yours today: dust, mud on the road, a machine idling at her fence, work outside permitted hours.
  5. Hold work that may be the cause, until your project manager gets the necessary engineering advice on resuming it.
  6. Report damage to your company that day, and give her a name, a number and a time for your next call.

At the gate

  1. Neighbour:Your roller shook my house, and now my kitchen wall is cracked. Who's paying?
  2. You:Thank you for telling me. Can I look at it with you now?
  3. Neighbour:And you'll fix it?
  4. You:Who pays is for my company and its insurer. Today I'll photograph it with you, check our survey and keep the roller off your side.

Common mistakes

  • Telling her the crack was already there before you have checked.
  • Promising to pay, or saying "we're insured, don't worry".
  • Sending her to the office instead of handling it yourself.

What to say

Lines for the gate

  1. You:"Thank you for coming to tell me."
  2. You:"Can we look at it together now?"
  3. You:"Who pays is for my company and its insurer to decide."
  4. You:"Here's what I'm changing today."
  5. You:"You'll hear from me by four."

Check your understanding

The survey shows the same crack before work started, the same length as today. Do you still call her back?

Show the answer
Yes. Show her the survey photo beside today's and say you will keep checking it. The record answers the damage question; the call shows she was taken seriously, which decides whether her next complaint comes to you or to the city.

Sources

  1. Noise (construction noise hours and how to report noise)City of Toronto · Toronto, Ontario, Canada · accessed
  2. Declaration: Vibration Control (form 14-0062, revised 2015-07)City of Toronto · Toronto, Ontario, Canada · accessed